My three babies – The kittens have lost their happy bits

Now I know why when I told everyone I was getting kittens a few weeks before the baby was due they said, “Wow” or “Are you sure?”

I get why my husband kept saying: “It’s a lot of responsibility all at once.” But I’d just point to my burgeoning belly and scoff: “We’re no strangers to responsibility.”

Oh naïve, pre-baby Adele.


The kittens (or do I start calling them cats now?) have had their surgeries. You know, the ones where we pay to have their reproductive systems snuffed out. Poor babies.

And that’s just it. I have three babies. What was I thinking?

When we first brought them home Hero and Bojangles had my full attention. I measured what they ate fastidiously. They slept in my lap. I let them claw me (and especially my bump) to bits.

I was rubbish at preparing them for what would hit them.

The day we got back from the hospital they weren’t my babies anymore. Their claws were sharp. Their paws had been in the litter tray. They came too close to my vulnerable newborn’s head while I was feeding her.

And their toddler stage had begun. They played with nappies hung out to dry. The Moses basket was forbidden therefore that’s where they desperately wanted to sleep.

Hero decided to wait until I was stuck on a sofa feeding to climb out a window. I had set a howling baby down hurriedly to run after her.

I’ve had to consciously remind myself to stroke them when I’m not holding her, which isn’t often. Their meals quickly went from four to two because I couldn’t hack it.

I’ve now say to myself, whenever I hear them playing with something they shouldn’t: “If I don’t look, it’s not happening.”

But their operations have reminded me they’re still my babies. Look at poor Hero.

Bojangles is fine as ever. Why is being female so difficult regardless of your species?

Anyway, we’ve at least averted one of the concerns some people had so far. The kittens aren’t interested in the baby, just her things. The most they do is go up to her, take a look and walk away. (OK, just as I wrote this, Hero started walking on Talitha. The game is changing, yet again.)

Sadly for them, I doubt she’ll be treating them with the same disinterest once she starts crawling.


12 Comments

  1. August 20, 2011 / 1:41 pm

    Cute! The cat, not the baby. Well, ok, the baby too, of course.

    • August 21, 2011 / 2:21 am

      Haha! Don’t go calling a shaven cat cuter than my baby. There are rules. 🙂

  2. August 20, 2011 / 1:55 pm

    As always, a wonderful post! And thank you for snipping them up. I used to do feral cat rescue & I find myself so very grateful to all those who spay & neuter their furbabies. <3

    • August 21, 2011 / 2:22 am

      Thanks hon. Goodness knows our hands are full and pockets empty with these. Can’t be managing any offspring!

  3. Lucy
    August 20, 2011 / 4:49 pm

    I felt the same when Arch brought a cat home as a ‘Valentine’s Day present’ two months before I was due… and have been similarly guilty of neglect. However, it’s really sweet now as Atticus likes to ‘stroke’ him and he just sits there and takes it (with his eyes closed, to avoid getting them poked out by a baby). T’will be lovely when they all play together!

    • August 21, 2011 / 2:24 am

      After I wrote this post – as if they sensed it – both took an unhealthy interest in her feet. Playtime can wait. A pic of Atticus stroking the kitty please?

  4. Anonymous
    August 20, 2011 / 6:13 pm

    Oh no, did they shave off her fur? Poor little kitties. Hope they’re back to their cheeky selves soon x

    • August 21, 2011 / 2:26 am

      Had to shave both legs too as she decided to be mental and wouldn’t let them inject her. Want to take off the cone soon though. It may be making her extra naughty.

  5. August 24, 2011 / 10:16 pm

    I am sure Talitha will give them a run for their money once she is a bit bigger – give her a year or so and she’ll call the shots!  LLC loves our cat but I believe slightly terrorizes him!

  6. samera
    September 8, 2011 / 3:29 pm

    I now have two kittens! Hubby got the idea stuck in his head and in the space of half an hour had gone from ‘I want a cat!’ to buying a kitten off a very nice Algerian man we found on Gumtree. And then of course we had to get another one to keep the first company. They’re cute as anything but I have a feeling that once baby is born I’m pretty much going to forget they exist… :s by the way how old were your cats when you got them neutered? everyone seems to have a different opinion on when to do it.

    • September 8, 2011 / 5:55 pm

      Oh dear. I really hope it works out for you. On a daily basis I go from “sweet kitties” to “bloody stupid cats” and back. Got them done at 21 weeks, I think. You can get them done even earlier but I didn’t feel good about that. The vet advised I not wait on the 6 month mark which is what many people do, because we have a male and a female and the thought was that we never know when exactly they meet sexual maturity. Looking forward to pics of your sweet things. I swear, you and I keep mirroring each other! Guess that means I need to return to academia!

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